@christianedbert sebenarnya pak if you have kids, for them to have a successful life you have to let them fail, encourage and nurture them to stand up and try again. What a lot of parents who are quite succesful in their life have done is they cant see their kids suffers, so they tend to hold their hand tell their kids to continue their path, at times this doesnt work well... coz everyone live path are different. For kids coming from not so well do background, they have not much choice they have to work hard, control their emotion and ego to reach the apex.